In the last twenty years, autism has risen to the forefront in the American consciousness. High-functioning autism (otherwise known as Asperger’s) is of particular interest because these people can and do function positively (even excellently) in society. Still, they face unique challenges in socially interacting with colleagues, family, and friends. Robison’s memoir shows how such an adaptation can happen and how happiness can ultimately be found.
Robison was raised without a formal understanding of his condition. He was mistreated by his peers, abused by his father, and dropped out of high school. However, due to a combination of persistence, opportunity, and luck, he managed to carve out a decent life engineering mechanical and electronic equipment. He learned, often painfully, how to adapt in society. As of his time writing this book, in his fifties, he feels socially accepted to a degree that he didn’t think possible as a youth.
This story can serve several ends. It can inspire, and it can teach. With the prevalence of autism on the up-and-up, more people receive this diagnosis and need hope to assuage anxieties. This rise in diagnoses may be due to more awareness of the condition (as in Robison’s case) or due to a larger number of cases (or both). Either way, Robison demonstrates that with a few adaptive lessons (specifically spelled out in his story), people can live a happy and well-adjusted life.
Besides being useful, this story is also entertaining. Robison’s journey spans an unstable household, a bout with homelessness, gigs with the rock band Kiss, jobs with engineering firms, marriage and family, and starting a high-end car repair business. Robison’s writing style is heavily analytic yet engaged with the human condition. He comes off as incredibly human and – dare I say – normal.
Autism continues to receive attention (rightfully) in ways to integrate those with the condition successfully into socially helpful roles. For whatever reason, society deals with this issue more and more today. Books like this serve as a part of the social solution by providing human understanding. Asperger’s, as Robison notes, has many benefits if one makes a few social adaptations. This book thankfully lights the way for affected families, professionals, and the reading public in general.
Look Me in the Eye: My Life with Asperger’s
By John Elder Robison
Read by Mark Deakins
Copyright (c) 2007
Penguin Random House Audio Publishing Group
ASIN B000W91562
Length: 10:19
Genre: Autobiography/Memoir
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